courtship, habits, myself

ang ganda ng advice ni sir mar reyes about courtship. "karibalin ko ang sarili ko."

ang lalim. pero kuha ko agad yung substance ng sinabi nya. sometimes ang best or worst na karibal mo is yung sarili mo talaga hindi kung sino pa man.

and have i thought of it in the first place, baka i better myself with her, how i care for her, how i acted to be more mature.

there's no such thing as innate character, we are just trained, or somewhat plain accustomed to what we usually do, old habits die hard. pero pwede tanggalin, baguhin, or palitan ng bago.

sanay na sanay na ako sa www.yahoo.com. pero alam ko na pwede naman wag na i-type ang www, pero cge pa rin ako minsan i-type iyon www(old habit talaga). pero ni-train ko na sarili ko na yahoo lng i-type then ctrl+enter(oh she taught me about the shortcut). and it feels empowering, na may natututunan ka bago, and kahit gaano ka kasanay sa dating habit, kayang-kaya pa rin pala baguhin. yung QWERTY typing is another example, then pinag-aralan ko yung Dvorak keyboard layout, mas efficient, kayang-kaya mag-aral ng bago, lalo at sawa ka na rin naman sa old habit.

a person can change.


List of habits or routines na dapat tanggalin or iminimize ko:

minimize: pag-visit sa slashdot.org
palitan: visit more programming-oriented stuff sites, an old habit i must restore

tanggalin: seeking truth about divination
palitan: seek more about improving and honing my query skills

minimize: soft drinks, tapat lng kasi ng bahay may tindahan
palitan: syempre water lng

minimize: too much sleep
palitan: schedule sleeping

minimize: rapidly going to sleep when burdened with too much thinking especially programming
palitan: instead, just stay awake a little bit of one hour more, baka maisip na rin naman agad ang solution kesa matulog agad

tanggalin: panonood ng tv
palitan: change with internet habit, syempre meron din time-wasting activities s internet na dapat iwasan

minimize: blogging :D
palitan: not possible, this is my online bookmarks collection and diary na rin. but then of course, blogging is not a substitute with other more interesting and real activities. you just report your activities with blogging, how well you are very much alive, and how wonderful life is, in spite of numerous obstacles and pains in life


blogging is a good habit